This follows from the last post ...

I think the last step in cutting that cord from an unhealthy (for me) friendship is letting go of expectations.

I don't expect anything from this person anymore, I don't expect she'll be there when I need her. I don't expect her to be there when I just want her to be there. I don't expect her to even understand how her actions have hurt me.

I don't expect anything from her moving forward.